6/05/2005

Yes ,Men are from a different planet!!!

Today I got soooo bored,so my roomie and I decided to use relay call to tease some of our friends!We first call my girlfriend and since she didn't know who was typing on the other line she called me right after,then I called one of my guy classmates.He hung up several times and the lady on the other side kept appologizing for she was not ale to delievrer the messege.When I called him later and asked him if any thing interesting had hapened,he didn't mention that he had a relay call and when I insisted on wether he had any wierd missed calls he finally acknowledgd that he had a few and that his brother picked up the phone but he doesn't know what he was told.That was when I exactly realized how different we girls are from boys!How close we communicate and how much details are important to us,whereas ,guys don't pay attention to this things.They don'y communicate intimately with their guy friends,they only see you but never notice the detail such as how you smile,what you say,or even the color of your hair.Believe me that happened to me many times!!!My mom was always complaining that my dad never pays attention to my mom's hair,and that was true.Not that they don't care but their machanism work in a way that only allows them to keep such information in their short term memory and after a few second they're booom,all gone!!!By the same token ,I realized other differences,how sometimes unlike the stereotypes guys are illogical and oblivous.It's not surprising if they don't remember your birthday,or favorite song.They live in the very moment.I can assure you that if seat next to your guy classmate and speak up on your phone that you will go home for lunch after the class,in less than 2 minutes they will ask "so are you gonna be in school after the class?",this is sad but true.They listen to you but they're not paying attention and they talk to you but don't bother to follow what u saying.I mean there're definitely some exceptions ,but the majority act in the same manner,don't you agree?