Hoghooghe ma 2khatara!

2day I was thinking ke ma 2khtaraye bichare zire bare che chiza ke nemirim.Akhe khodaya in vaghean 2roste ke age ye dokhtar nakhad ta ghabl az ezdevajesh kary bokoneh,sezavare kam mahally bashe?Jeddan?Man aslan age nakham ta ghab az aroosim ba hich pesary intimate besham what should I do?I can't take this anymore,I mean how come some guys don't appriciate the fact that some body has respect for her body and value what she has?But when they wanna get maried,the gal has to be virgin indeed,is this really fair?Why are we so oppressed akhe?Gonahe ma chie?Ommolim or retarded or perhaps old-fashioned?han?Why do they bring us down or ignore us for our beliefs!How come some guys expect their girl to be their girlfriend when they wanna be touchy but change their mind in other cases!That's so not right and something needs to be done about our culture!Aslan yeki be man bege ke chera age hameye ina ghalatan pas ye stagy bename virginity exists at all!Can somebody eluciate that?